The ‘Grown up’ Feeling

When was the first time you really felt like a grown up (if ever)?

Four years back I had to leave my home for further studies. My university was far away from my home so it was evident that I had to stay at hostel for next two years. The day before the journey I was a little sad as I never stayed far away from my home earlier. My parents accompanied me to help me settle over there.

I was not sure whether I will be able to handle everything on my own without my parents by my side. There were many other girls,some from older batch and others from the incoming batch, like me. I made friends with some of them on the very first day. My parents halted at a nearby hotel but I stayed with my new friends in the hostel, my home for next two years.

The next morning my parents came to meet me before returning back to home. My mom had tears in her eyes but I did not cry. I tried to calm her. I hugged her and said not to worry about me and I promised her that I will take good care of myself. Earlier I was the one who cried and my mother always calmed me. But this time it was other way around. After my parents left I sat alone in my room for sometimes and suddenly I felt like a grown up.

The hostel life indeed helped me to grow up. It gave me independence. I handled not so good situations, I learnt making decisions on my own. It also gave me some true friends who are now inseparable part of my life.


In response to Daily Prompt: All Grown Up.

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http://expressiveponderings.com/2014/12/30/being-a-grown-up-for-once/

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4 thoughts on “The ‘Grown up’ Feeling

  1. Hi! I just wanted to drop in and say hello! I hope you have a wonderful week. I also hope and pray that you and your husband are reunited soon and I think it would be so wonderful if you will be able to come and live in the US with him. Here is some hugs to brighten your day. 🙂 ((HUGS!)) xo

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